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8.03.2010

Apple Crumb Cake

[This article is just one of the many reasons why I love the Harvard Business Review.]

The HBR article I've linked to (and reproduced) here discusses the organizational, economic, and ecological failures of one of the most "creative" companies in the developed world. And maybe, when you think about it, Apple isn't the technological Eden it proclaims. As always, a welcome dose of reality.


Apple's Real Achilles Heel

12:07 PM Friday July 16, 2010 | Comments (46)

Herewith, the second in a series of posts discussing a new agenda for capitalism. To get the most out of it, a gentle suggestion: please read last week's first, if you haven't already. Enjoy!!

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So, does your iPhone 4 work? Its antenna issue, some say, including Consumer Reports, points to Apple's various weaknesses: arrogance, bad PR, poor testing, out of touch management.

So is this a great turning point for Apple? Well, yes and no. Apple does have an Achilles heel. But it's bigger — and more enduring — than any or all of the above. It's the second bullet point in what you might call an agenda for 21st century capitalism: building a high-impact organization. Apple's great weakness is that it isn't one — yet.

Here's a suggestion. Apple, when you think about it, is a microcosm of the global economy; a tiny but striking representation of both its strengths and its weaknesses. Apple mass produces "product" (with a smattering of services on top), mega-markets it (across mass media), and sells it in your local mall, mostly to developed-world "consumers."

Here are just a few of the downsides: The raw materials Apple uses are toxic to the environment; Apple's Chinese subcontractors have endured a spate of recent suicides; Apple takes advantage of a questionable Chinese exchange rate regime that effectively exports unemployment to the developed world (and subverts the very notion of "free trade"). And it does all this at a lightspeed pace of "innovation," which results in spirals of obsolescence; last year's junk heads, often, to the landfill. Finally, it's questionable whether Apple's products, as beautiful as they are, offer meaningful benefits to people. Are they just the technological equivalent of Jimmy Choos, the kind of stuff that underpins the consumption addiction at the heart of the global economic crisis in the first place?

Apple, to its great credit, strives mightily to minimize each and every one of these downsides. Yet, that it must do so is the very point. How different, as a linchpin of the economy, is Apple from the Ford of 1930, the GM of 1950, the P&G of 1980, or the GE of 1990? In economic terms, not so much: all are built on the same set of institutions: mass production, mega-marketing, "profit," hierarchy, opacity, "innovation." You know the score — and by now, you might just ask yourself: "isn't it time to move past the industrial age already?"

The hallmark of a 21st century business is having built a radically more fruitful set of economics, so a company, organization, or country doesn't have the downsides above in the first place. Hard as it might be, think of an Apple that can create awesome iStuff without a single one of the negative effects above — and then expand that vision to include carmakers, pharmaceutical companies, and banks — and you're beginning to picture a 21st century economy.

So Apple's Achilles heel is this: It's part and parcel of what you might call a global Ponziconomy. That's one where businesses do better by doing bad. There, companies compete to make some people better off by making others worse off. Like Bernie Madoff's returns to investors were largely illusory, so the benefits offered by a Ponziconomy are often simply fictional — as we've discovered the hard way over the last couple of years or so.

Permit me, then, to humbly offer a tiny challenge. Dear Apple — want to be the revolutionary you proclaim yourself to be? Then know this: being an economic renegade today isn't about building slightly better stuff, but making stuff better — building a 21st century business that does better by doing good. Today, you're about as revolutionary as a cup of lukewarm tea. From a larger economic perspective, you're still mostly a 20th century company in 21st century clothing.

Now, consider this. If I sound like I'm harshing on Apple — I'm not. Apple's perhaps one of the economy's most radical companies and one of its most explosive outperformers. Here's the point: It's still not good enough — not enough to create jobs, meet the needs of tomorrow's generations, give back to the natural world, spark higher-order innovation, or fuel a more authentic prosperity. If that's the best that our economy can do, well, we've got to do better.

No, it's not easy. In fact, Apple's Achilles heel is really the great challenge glaring down at all companies, leaders, countries, and the entire global economy. But if, like Apple, you yearn to be a revolutionary — well, then it's time to get radical.

Consider a small slice of history. When Steve Jobs was searching for his own replacement after his first tenure as Apple's CEO, he audaciously said to the front-running candidate, then-Pepsi CEO John Sculley: "Do you want to spend the rest of your life selling sugared water, or do you want a chance to change the world?"

Perhaps, today, I might gently ask the same question of Steve: "do you really want to spend the rest of your life selling slicker gadgets, or do you want take this chance to change the world radically for the better?"

The future of capitalism isn't about making prettier, cooler gizmos every year; it's not about helping sell more movies, music, or apps. It's about building revolutionary companies, countries, and economies: those that are hardwired to do meaningful stuff that matters the most, and begin making up for the industrial age business-as-usual's glaring shortcomings; those that can fuel a more authentic prosperity instead.

If the first bullet point on the agenda of 21st century capitalism is discovering a higher purpose for the economy, the second might be said to be building high-impact organizations — those that can change the world radically for the better. Because when you think about it, that's what's really scarce.

[This sure isn't cutting it. But it is tugging on some heart strings...aww. (Hack, cough, ugh.)]

8.02.2010

This is not a diamond







Cross-Post: Elan Lee grand finale

From my epic interview/article/inspiration piece on Culture Hacker.

The end of "Elan Lee: The "Rolling Stone" Interview"

Doppelganger, 4th pressing


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7.29.2010

A Wise Man Worships Women

From Arjuna Ardagh:

Why It Is Wise To Worship A Woman


A few days ago, after a particularly delicious evening with my wife Chameli, I put this post up on Facebook Before going to bed:

"I have had many many great teachers in my life. A super abundance. No one and nothing comes close to the woman who is now asleep in my bed. My marriage has become the sat guru, the salvation, the muse, the crack through which the divine shines through."

When I woke up the next morning, there was the usual love offerings of people who liked the post as well as comments. One man had the vulnerability and courage to post this on facebook:

"Thank you Arjuna for this sharing, I feel like [I'm] in front of a choice which is between feeling envious of what you have and I don't, or instead to decide that 'I want that too,' and, as you show, it is possible....

I was touched.

Over the next days, I got several more messages like this from men: vulnerable men, honest men, rare and courageous men. They came in as private messages on Facebook or through our website, and they all said basically the same thing:

"I read your Facebook post. I want what you have. Show me how to get it."

So, friends, here it is. The short guide on how to worship a woman, and why it's the wisest thing that a man can do. First of all, lets pop a few very understandable doubts that you might have. I'm familiar with all of them.

1. "I'm wounded and damaged in my relationships to the feminine."

So am I, dear brother, so am I. My parents divorced in a messy way when I was four. I grew up alone with my mother. She did her very best to provide for me, but she was unhappy and insecure. By the time I started to have relationships with women myself in my early teens, I discovered that I had a mountain of resentments, fears and separation in my relation to the feminine.

2. "Arjuna, you're lucky. You've got an incredible partner. I'm together with a woman who's not like Chameli."

I really don't have the ultimate answer to that doubt or question. It certainly could seem to be the case that I've been lucky in finding a great woman, but here's how it happened for me. I've had a lot of less lucky connections in my life. I've experienced my share of the manipulative side of the feminine: the victim, the rageful, the revengeful. A few weeks prior to meeting Chameli, my wife, something deep and profound shifted in myself, which I believe can shift for anyone in the same way.

3. "I don't have a partner at all, and I sometimes doubt if I'll ever meet anybody."

Being with a partner where worship is not flowing, or not being with a partner at all, are basically two aspects of the same situation: you've had an intuition or a glimpse of the possibilities of feminine love, and you want more of it. The solutions are the same.

4. "I feel my heart is closed down. I live in my head a lot, and I wouldn't even know what worship was if it broke into my house at 2 o'clock in the morning and held me at gunpoint."

That's where the whole thing starts for all of us, when we realize that we don't yet know how to love. And that's that the big question that you have to consider, dear brother: "Is that okay with me?" Never mind how much money you make, or how many friends you have on facebook, no matter how nice a house you live in, or no matter how big a car you drive, no matter how impressive your partner's bust size, or how much you meditate and become spiritual... have you loved for real, in a total and undefended way? If not, and here's where you have to be honest with yourself, is that okay with you? Is it okay to die one day without the heart's gift haven been fully given?

Eight or nine years ago, I came to that question in myself, exactly that, and I discovered that the answer was, if I was was raw and vulnerable and uncomplicated, that it was actually not ok. If I died one day without having fully loved, it would not have truly been a life well lived.

Many many years ago, I went to Bali for a vacation, on my own. I met up with some other young travelers there and we hired a Jeep to take us on a tour of the island. We drove up right to the highest point of the island, where Tourists don't usually go. Our guide took us to one of the most sacred temples. It was surrounded by a big brick wall with an ornate entrance. After removing our shoes and wrapping scarves around our heads, we stepped together through this entrance. Inside, there was a short courtyard and then another brick wall with another entrance. After more preparations of lighting incense and giving offerings, we stepped through the second entrance. We were allowed to go through the opening in one more wall, but that was it. All together there were ten walls around the deity in the middle. Hindus could go beyond the fourth wall. Devotees of that particular deity could go beyond the fifth wall, and so it went on. The only people allowed to approach the deity directly were those who had given their lives completely and totally to its worship. Everyone else could come a little closer, a little closer, to the innermost beauty, but not all the way to the center.

I'm not a big believer of the worship of statues, but there's a beautiful symbolism to what I saw there, because a woman's heart is just like that. At the essence of every woman's heart is the divine feminine. It contains everything that has ever been beautiful, or lovely, or inspiring, in any woman, anywhere, at any time. The very essence of every woman's heart is the peak of wisdom, the peak of inspiration, the peak of sexual desirability, the peak of soothing, healing love. The peak of everything. But it's protected, for good reason, by a series of concentric walls. To move inwardly from one wall to the next requires that you intensify your capacity to devotion, and as you do so, you are rewarded with Grace. This is not something you can negotiate verbally with a woman. She doesn't even know consciously how to open those gates herself. They are opened magically and invisibly by the keys of worship.

If you stand on the outside of intimacy--avoiding connection and vulnerability, all you have available to you for fulfillment, like many other unfortunate men, is pornography. For a cheap price, you can see her body and stimulate yourself in a sad longing for deeper love.

Step though another gate, and she will show you her outer gift-wrapping. She'll look at you with a certain twinkle of her eye. She'll answer your questions coyly. She'll give you just the faintest hint that there is more available.

Step through another gate with your commitment, with your attention, with the small seedlings of devotion, and she'll open her heart to you more. She'll share with you her insecurities, the way that she's been hurt, her deepest longings. Some men will back away at this point, they realize that the price they must pay to go deeper is more than they are willing to give. They start to feel a responsibility. But for those few who step though another gate, they come to discover her loyalty, her willingness to stick with you no matter what, her willingness to raise your children, stick up for you in conversation, and if you are lucky even pick up your dirty socks now and then. And so it goes on. You've got the gist by now.

Somewhere around the second wall from the center, she casts the veils of her personality aside, and shows you that she is both a human being and also a portal into something much greater than that. She shows you a wrath that is not hers, but all women's. She shows you a patience that is also universal. She shows you her wisdom. At this point you start to experience the archetypes of women, who have been portrayed as gods and goddesses and mythological figures in every tradition.

Than, at the very center, in the innermost temple itself, all the layers of your devotion are flooded with reward all at once. You discover the very essence of the feminine, and in a strange way that is not exactly romantic, but profoundly sacred all the same, you realize that you could have got here with any woman if you had just been willing to pass through all the layers of initiation. Any woman is every woman, and every woman is any woman at the same time. When you love a woman completely, at the very essence of her being, this is the one divine feminine flame. It is what has made every woman in history beautiful. It's the flame behind the Mona Lisa, and Dante's Beatrice, and yes, also Penelope Cruz and Heidi Klum. You discover the magic ingredient which has lead every man to fall in love with a woman.

When you learn how to pay attention to the essence of the feminine in this way, you fall to the floor in full body prostration, tears soaking your cheeks and clothes, and you wonder how you could have ever taken Her, in all of Her forms, for granted even for a second.

So just a couple small questions remain, dear brother. First, do you get what I'm talking about? Does it jive for you? Does it make sense? And second, if yes, how are you going to get from where you are now to being able to the full capacity of your heart to love for real? I'll be glad to share more about this with you as we get to know each other better, but here's how you get started.

First, do what I did, and create an altar in your room dedicated to Divine Feminine. Put only symbols of the feminine on it. I have a painting called "The Annunciation" by Dante Gabriel Rossetti. Google it, you'll understand why. I have a statue of Quan Kin. I also have a stone shaped like Yoni, and a painting by Georgia O'Keeffe. Populate your altar with anything that reminds you of the feminine, and spend a few minutes of the day in worship. Yes, worship. Adoration. Devotion. Offer up rose petals. Offer poems. Hell, offer money. Offer everything, and beg her to reveal her innermost essence to you. This will work miracles whether you're single and waiting to meet the right woman or whether you're already in relationship and long to meet your woman in a deeper way.

The second way to get started: make a practice, a discipline, of telling your woman, or any woman, 10 times a day something which you adore about her. "I love the smell of your shampoo." "I love the way you laugh." "The color of your eyes is so beautiful." Of course, you need to keep it appropriate. You can go as far out on a limb as you like if you're in relationship with a woman, but with anyone else remember the gates. Keep you communication appropriate to the gate number that you find yourself at. Appreciation the curve of a woman's breast, for example, if she happens to be the cashier at the supermarket, would equate more to harassment than worship.

So here's enough to get started. Of course, there's a lot more we can say about this. Feel free to post your comments below, and I'll use them as the foundation for future blogs.

In the past...